Diane hasn't taken the route to college that her family and others expected. They all wanted her to graduate from a "prestigious" college and start a high-paying career. The reality is, she graduated from high school, shy and quiet among strangers, with a "less than average" academic record and no plans for the future. She is, she says, "a late bloomer."
Diane's story appears on ACT's student blog and shows other students that the best path to take is their own. Diane completed community college, developed an interest in journalism and transferred to Bradley University, where she'll complete her bachelor's degree next spring.
Many students, and even their parents, believe that to be successful, they have to go to a "Big Name" university. If that's the best choice for your son or daughter, fine. But don't select a college based on its name only. Remember that the things expected from a big name university such as a great education and important connections with students, staff and alumni are also possible for students who attend a smaller, less-selective college or university. They'll just have a different seal on their diploma and slightly different experiences to go along with it.
Maybe, like Diane, your teen's path should lead to community college first and then to a four-year college. She writes, "Had I chosen to attend another school, I never would have met the teachers who I respect and admire, nor forged friendships with the classmates, co-workers and [interview] subjects that I did."
So as you and your teen investigate colleges and their offerings, realize that with more than 3,500 two-year and four-year colleges and universities in the nation, it's hard to believe that only one particular school will work. Or that your child has to do exactly what others are doing. The best path for your teen is the one he or she chooses.
Check out Diane's story.
